Thank Your Partner for Something Surprising This Thanksgiving Nov 24, 2021

Take a deep breath y’all. The holidays are coming. 

Thanksgiving is TOMORROW and, most likely, you barely have any time to think for yourself… much less manage your partner or family’s emotions. I mean, managing one’s own emotional health during the holidays is a...

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Hooray! An Emotional Intimacy Victory! Nov 17, 2021

Darlings, I have a little bit of a beef with the 5 Love Languages. These “rules for relationship communication” leave out a major part of most relationships, something that, if it didn’t exist… neither would we! In this internationally best-selling book, read for decades...

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A Love Evolution: The Way You Were Nov 10, 2021

Everything changes. 

Right? That’s one of the few constants in this world that we all live in. 

Your appearance changes, the weather changes, your job changes. Heck, even your bank account changes.

You know what else changes? Your relationship.

Think about the beginning of your...

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Sometimes Love Appears as Furniture Oct 27, 2021

Oh Darling, the other day I heard a beautiful story of love from one of my clients that I just *had* to share with you.  

It touches on something important I’ve been thinking about recently: the word “love” as a verb.

Not “love” in the traditional way that...

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5 Acts of Love that Might Surprise You Oct 19, 2021

Darling, we’re all familiar with traditional acts of love… these classic images are plastered all over movies and TV and have been for years: 

They shower you with flowers and chocolates on Valentine’s Day. 

You get all dressed up in your fanciest lingerie and has...

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How to Turn Rejection Into Connection Oct 13, 2021

The other day, I posted a status to Facebook and, while it didn’t get a huge response, it’s message has stuck with me all week. 

In case you missed it, here’s what I shared (and, hey, if we aren’t already ‘friends’ on Facebook, why not? Go ahead and send...

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3 Steps to A Great (Self) Love Affair Oct 06, 2021

Last week, I shared with you why I think it is so important to love yourself, and more importantly, treat yourself with love.

You can read the full blog here, but I want to be sure to reiterate one point here:

LOVING YOURSELF IS THE VERY BEST THING YOU CAN DO FOR YOUR FAMILY!

You might be like...

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This Fall, Make Falling In Love With Yourself a Priority Sep 29, 2021

Yup, screw all those outside relationships for a moment (or don’t screw ‘em, as it were… we’re focusing on YOU right now) and think about the last time you treated YOURSELF with the same care and love as you devote to others… 

Has that actually happened in...

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“Disease of the Mid-Quarters, From the Neck to the Knees”: Inside The Antique Vibrator Museum (San Francisco) Sep 22, 2021

For my birthday this year, I visited Good Vibrations’ Antique Vibrator Museum in San Francisco, California and, y’all, vibrator technology has come so far in a short amount of time!

This privately-curated collection features vibrators from the late 1800s to the current day. In fact,...

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Celebrate National Prostate Health Month with Orgasms! Sep 15, 2021



Did you know that, in addition to being my birth month, September is also National Prostate Health Month? 

Neither did I till now. 

But, it’s a pretty magical coincidence since I’ve been an outspoken prostate champion for years now. In fact, it’s pretty weird, but...

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