Challenge Yourself By Learning Something New & Sexy Every Year

Sep 08, 2021

I know, I know, I’ve been going pretty hard on the ‘back to school’ angle lately, but to be honest I’ve been figuring out that it’s where a lot of my insecurities come from. Whether it was grades, fashion, sports or social status, there were a lot of triggers for me in my school days that have carried over into my adult life. (I’m guessing you might have a few scars, too? Almost everyone does.)

Just think back to how nervous you were at the start of every new school year as a kid. Remember how you showed up at school anyway, made the best of it and by the end of the year, you were sad that it was over.  You learned something every year, even if it was unexpected. And every fall, you were nervous again because you didn't know what the new year would be like.  

You might not have thought you were brave, because typically there was an adult kicking your butt to make sure you showed up at school, but still, you did the hard things. Year after year.  

These days, as an adult, there’s really no equivalent to these forced yearly challenges.  Most of us don’t change jobs every year, let alone have to choose a new career path or have to make all new friends, or have to find a new relationship…  

The fact that our lives are going along smoothly on our chosen path feels good.  We appreciate the comfort and security so much though, that it’s hard to recognize when it becomes stagnant or just plain boring. 

Then, if we aren’t careful, boring turns to restlessness and even resentment.  Before we know it, instead of just taking the scenic route for a while,  we’re crashing and burning just to force ourselves into changing things up.  

As a divorce lawyer, my client roster was full of crash victims who were still so stunned they didn’t know what happened.  As they would say “Things were going along so smoothly, I just didn’t see this coming.”

As a love, sex and relationship coach now, I help people add intimate, sexy fun and excitement to their journeys in safe ways so they don’t suddenly overcompensate and cause serious damage in their desire for change, challenge and accomplishment. 

Because, human nature is such that each of us needs to be challenged sometimes.  And we want to succeed. We want to win. Not just finish. 

Facing challenges is as important in love and life as it is professionally.  When we overcome a challenge, our self confidence expands as does our capacity to love.  So learning new things, accomplishing a new task and feeling successful is hugely important for our growth, even as adults … 

Which is why if challenges are being forced upon us, we must seek them out (as I did in my recent scary fishy experience)!

Will you be nervous when you force myself to do these things? Of course!

Will you learn something new and profound about yourself every single time? Yes, you will!

Will you regret doing it afterwards? Rarely ever! As Lewis Carroll said, “In the end, we only regret the chances we didn't take, relationships we were afraid to have and the decisions we waited too long to make.”

As a grown up, it's ok to be nervous about trying new things, but it's a bummer to let your fear hold you back from moving forward just because no one is there to "make you" do it like when your parents made you go to school.  

Here’s the kicker: you know who’s in charge of challenging yourself now? YOU ARE!

So… What will you challenge yourself to do this year?  

I suggest you commit to at least two challenges in each of the following areas: Professional, Personal and Love.  Write them down to provide accountability and check back at least monthly.  

Of course, if you haven't taken my "How to Blow His Mind While Loving His Body", or "The Art of Orally Pleasuring Her" class yet, these would be great challenges for you. 

Because, really, what's stopping you? I can't believe you don't want to learn to be a better lover, cuz don't we all want that? 

And if it's because you think it won't be worth the money, well, take the class and tell me why you don't think it's worth it within 7 days and I'll refund you.

Truly, I hope you'll be kind to yourself, trust me, and take a leap of faith by signing up.  I'll be here to cheer you on, or to listen to your complaints if you don't like it. 

Funny thing- telling you how good these classes are is a challenge for me. And I’m taking my own advice by doing it even though it’s hard.  Cuz, here’s the deal… I'm pretty hard on myself and don’t ever want to over promise anything (you know this) yet, I'm telling you: these classes are good classes are fun, interesting, inoffensive and transformative. No nudity or pornography, lol. Just me talking.  I'm not blowing smoke cuz you'd see right through it and be mad at me which I would hate, lol. 

 It's just that after years of teaching these classes, I'm finally believing what my clients say, and I hope you might also: 

“Beth’s classes opened my mind to what each human deserves: love of self, happiness with your special someone and to LAUGH and have FUN!” ~ Heather B.

“Beth’s workshops have been instrumental in the love life of my marriage. She has helped us open up verbally and emotionally as well as sexually.” ~ Keith D.

“Since the class, I have improved my ‘sexy’, and have enjoyed pleasuring myself and my hubby in ways I would have never known or tried.” ~ Mary F.

Ok, so you are witnessing me fulfilling my challenge.  I am sharing my enthusiasm for these classes with you; I’m telling you that I’ve literally taught thousands of people how to enjoy more sexy pleasure in their lives;  and I’m admitting that I’d really like to teach you how to UPLEVEL YOUR SEXY PLEASURE too.  

If you’re ready to challenge yourself to something new, I hope you’ll let me be part of your challenge and together we will 


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