5 Acts of Love that Might Surprise You Oct 19, 2021

Darling, we’re all familiar with traditional acts of love… these classic images are plastered all over movies and TV and have been for years: 

They shower you with flowers and chocolates on Valentine’s Day. 

You get all dressed up in your fanciest lingerie and has...

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How to Turn Rejection Into Connection Oct 13, 2021

The other day, I posted a status to Facebook and, while it didn’t get a huge response, it’s message has stuck with me all week. 

In case you missed it, here’s what I shared (and, hey, if we aren’t already ‘friends’ on Facebook, why not? Go ahead and send...

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3 Steps to A Great (Self) Love Affair Oct 06, 2021

Last week, I shared with you why I think it is so important to love yourself, and more importantly, treat yourself with love.

You can read the full blog here, but I want to be sure to reiterate one point here:

LOVING YOURSELF IS THE VERY BEST THING YOU CAN DO FOR YOUR FAMILY!

You might be like...

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This Fall, Make Falling In Love With Yourself a Priority Sep 29, 2021

Yup, screw all those outside relationships for a moment (or don’t screw ‘em, as it were… we’re focusing on YOU right now) and think about the last time you treated YOURSELF with the same care and love as you devote to others… 

Has that actually happened in...

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“Disease of the Mid-Quarters, From the Neck to the Knees”: Inside The Antique Vibrator Museum (San Francisco) Sep 22, 2021

For my birthday this year, I visited Good Vibrations’ Antique Vibrator Museum in San Francisco, California and, y’all, vibrator technology has come so far in a short amount of time!

This privately-curated collection features vibrators from the late 1800s to the current day. In fact,...

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Celebrate National Prostate Health Month with Orgasms! Sep 15, 2021



Did you know that, in addition to being my birth month, September is also National Prostate Health Month? 

Neither did I till now. 

But, it’s a pretty magical coincidence since I’ve been an outspoken prostate champion for years now. In fact, it’s pretty weird, but...

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Challenge Yourself By Learning Something New & Sexy Every Year Sep 08, 2021

I know, I know, I’ve been going pretty hard on the ‘back to school’ angle lately, but to be honest I’ve been figuring out that it’s where a lot of my insecurities come from. Whether it was grades, fashion, sports or social status, there were a lot of triggers for me...

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4 Great Reasons Every Prostate Should Be Pleasured Sep 01, 2021

Before I get started, I want you to answer the following: 

  1. If a man enjoys kissing- is he straight, bi or gay?
  2. If a man enjoys receiving oral sex, is he straight, bi or gay?

If those questions confuse you because you know you can’t determine whether a man is straight, bi or gay just...

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Trix are for Kids, but Sexy Ed School is for You! Aug 25, 2021

It’s that time of year again, where we send our kids back to school. If you’re a stay-at-home parent, that might free up some time for you and woohoo! You deserve it after all you’ve dealt with lately.  But, I really hope that you don’t fill “all this...

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When Desire and Fear Collide; Swimming with Dolphins for the Win! Aug 18, 2021

Last week, in the midst of a dream come true adventure, when I proudly proclaimed my status as “an old woman”, a much younger woman felt I was being harsh.  With tenderness, she tried to soften and reframe it for me as: 

 “You’re past the prime of your life...

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